Cheese Tasting RSVP Website: Flight Seats, a Dairy Line, and a Plate Already Cut
A cheese tasting RSVP has to lock a seat and a dairy line before the shop cuts the flight, because a maybe does not hold a plate.

A cheese tasting breaks when the counter set ten plates and fourteen people sit down, or when someone who cannot eat dairy is handed a flight that was already cut and cannot be uncut. Seats, the dairy line, and the ounces on each board are set before the first cheese comes out of the case. The shop does not slice a second flight because a friend decided to come after the plates were portioned. A maybe does not hold a plate.
You can create a cheese tasting RSVP that fills the seats the shop can plate, records who cannot eat dairy, and stops when that tasting is full.
Ask what this tasting can plate
Call the shop or the host before you send the link. Write down how many people get a flight, how many cheeses are on the flight, the portion size, how long the tasting runs, and whether seats are at a counter, at a table, or standing. Those numbers are your cap. Do not guess from the number of wheels in the case.
A flight is a set of portions tied to one person. Ask whether a guest who will not eat cheese can sit without a flight, and whether that person still takes a paid seat. Pick one rule and write it on the page. If the shop only has seats for people who are tasting, say that a non-taster should not take a chair.
Ask the price, what is included, whether bread or crackers are part of the plate, and the last time you can cut the count without paying for cheese that was already portioned. If the shop charges for a no-show after that time, print that rule on the page. Ask which cheeses are unpasteurized, washed in alcohol, or finished with nuts, and write those facts on the page so people can decide before they claim a seat.
Set a capacity limit on people who will taste, not on everyone who was invited. When the last flight is taken, the form should say the tasting is full. A friend who might come still needs a seat and a cut plate. If the cheese is already portioned, they are not in this tasting.
Dairy is the menu, not a side note
Every plate is dairy unless the shop built a separate board, and most shops will not. Collect dietary limits with severity before you confirm a seat. You need a clear line, not a paragraph about favorite cheeses.
Can eat this flight means dairy is fine, including the specific notes you already published about raw milk or a nut rind
Cannot eat dairy at all means they should not take a cheese flight. If you have no non-dairy seat, this answer is a no
One item is a problem means they can taste only if the shop can leave that item off, and only if the shop said it can
Ask the shop which of those three they can actually plate. If they cannot pull the nut-rind cheese off one board without rebuilding every board, do not offer that option. Pregnancy and unpasteurized cheese are a reason to skip a plate, and you do not need the reason. You need the yes or the no before the cheese is cut. A mild preference is not a second flight.
Where they sit
A tasting on stools at a high counter is not the same as a tasting at a table. Ask about seating needs only where the shop can honor them: a chair with a back, a seat on the main floor if the room has a step, or no preference. If every seat is the same stool, skip the question and say the seats are stools. A preference the room cannot meet should not be on the form.
Say whether people should arrive early enough to check in before the first cheese is described. A late taster does not get the earlier cheeses replayed, and the shop may not hold a plate past a set number of minutes. Put that number on the page. Cheese that has been sitting out has a time limit the shop sets. Do not promise that a late plate will be recut.
The moment the plates are cut
The meeting point is the shop door, with the suite number if there is one. Put the host's start time on the page. A home tasting still has a fixed flight count. The refrigerator is not a backup case of the same cheeses.
If you allow a guest, that person needs their own flight decision and their own dairy answer. Track them as a separate yes. One form that hides an extra taster will blow the plate count and the seats. Say that on the page.
Tie your RSVP deadline to the shop's cut list, the day they portion the boards. After that, a late yes is a call about a cancellation, not a promise of another plate. If you want names ready when someone drops, keep them as standbys and tell them they do not have a plate until you write back. A maybe does not hold a plate.
Export the list the day you lock: attending or not, flight or no-cheese seat, dairy line, any single item the shop agreed to leave off, seating limit the shop agreed to, and phone. A cheese tasting RSVP is finished when every flight has a person who can eat it, every seat matches a plate, and the shop can set the boards down without rebuilding your list at the counter.